One thing that u have forgotten is that Putin wanted to join NATO, but insisted on getting special treat with the Russian application.
NATO basically told Putin that they have to go thru all the processes and meet the criteria before acceptance.
By Putin pushing to become a NATO partner, it would hint that he believed in this organisation integrity and adhering to it mantra.
Putin is basically acting like a spoil brat, who didn’t get his way and simply wants revenge at any cost!
That seems rather fanciful. Look, the erstwhile Soviet Union tried to join NATO. Before Putin. Of course, it was seen by NATO as a way by the Soviets to neutralize the alliance in much the same way the West was being frustrated by the Soviets in the UN security council. The Soviets,however, saw it as a way of maintaining world peace. NATO rejected the overture. Shortly after the Warsaw Pact was formed.
When Putin took over sometime after the dissolution of the Soviet Union, and after the fall of the Berlin Wall, he did see Russia as a European country and wanted to join. NATO, euphoric from the fall of the Berlin war, did not see Russia as an equal, thought they had the Russians on the run, and contemptuously told him to join the queue. NATO's raison d'etre was the Soviets and is Russia. You could hardly have the "enemy" upon which your existence predicated, join.
The US has since the WW2 had it's intent fixed on rolling the Soviets and Russia. And NATO is a US sock. The US has been trying to encircle Russia much the same way as they've done to China. It's no secret. And they've been constantly upping the ante. Russia had been telling them to knock it off and for a long time had been seeking a new mutually beneficial security deal. That wasn't in US/ NATO DNA.
They've been knocking Russia from pillar to post with their aggressive expansion. They tried to get Georgia on board. Right at the Russian doorstep. Russia told them to back-off. Did they listen, no. They supported and incited a colour revolution to install a Western friendly leader in the Ukraine.
The West knew it was causing trouble by moving to take the Ukraine into its sphere. There are communiques documenting that. The Ukraine was Russia's Cuba.
And look what the Americans did there. So intolerable was it that they had Soviet missiles on their doorstep, and whilst overlooking the fact that they had first placed missiles in Turkey, threatened to engulf the world in a nuclear holocaust.
The West is using Ukraine as a battering ram against Russia. The Russians had warned and warned and it all fell on deaf , hegemonic ears.
And here we are today. If the West co-operated this shit show in the Ukraine could have been averted.
This petulant, crazy, Soviet resurrecting Putin theory, imho, just doesn't stack up against real world events. It's more like the West (US) wanting undisputed, unchallenged world domination.